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An Eye to Spring
This is not a lament, though we have just lived through the largest blizzard on record — by every measure: snowfall, wind, the long howl of it. For now, my state is shuttered.…
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Snow, Carefully
The snow that fell two weeks ago has hardened into something glassy and unyielding, not unlike the cooled lava I once walked near in Hawaii—beautiful, fixed, and everywhere. It presses against roads and…
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On the Twelfth Day of a Feminine Christmas
These two make me smile. They are clearly at a real, old-fashioned New Year’s Eve party—dressed to the nines, party makers in hand. I love the idea of it far more than the…
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On the Eleventh Day of a Feminine Christmas
This may not look like a Christmas image, at least not in the way you’ve come to expect from A Lovely Inconsequence. But let me explain. The photograph is of Meryl Streep in…
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On the Tenth Day of a Feminine Christmas
This image calls to mind so many of the things I loved about the Christmas gifts my mother chose for me during my teenage years. The dolls and bassinets had quietly slipped away,…
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On the Ninth Day of a Feminine Christmas
I love these two friends. paused together before a shop window at Christmas. Their delight is unmistakable—faces softened by wonder, shoulder to shoulder in shared pleasure. Even now, with Christmas Day behind us,…
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On the Eight Day of a Feminine Christmas
If you’ve come this far, you’ve earned your elegant arabesque. At last, with Christmas Eve upon us, we may lower our guard; whatever remains unfinished no longer matters. Take a breath. Christmas morning…
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On the Seventh Day of a Feminine Christmas
This may well be an AI-generated image, or at least one that has been idealized. Still, I am drawn to it for its unmistakably female point of view. The women feel almost like…
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On the Sixth Day of a Feminine Christmas
Being a grandmother, I now feel Christmas, most keenly through grandmotherhood—which is a love that is both deep and light, rooted and buoyant. There is a particular joy in seeing the season through…
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On the Fifth Day of a Feminine Christmas
The pink-frosted lipstick, the ballet-pink bouclé coat, the bejeweled buttons—each whispers Christmas, with a softer, more feminine key. I have always loved pink, and at this time of year it feels especially enchanting,…
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On the Fourth Day of a Feminine Christmas
There’s a memory I treasure from another place and year…Of a Christmas far too beautiful to ever disappear. ~ E.B. White This is a Christmas card I received years ago, yet it has…
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On the Third Day of a Feminine Christmas
Painted nails have never been a strong suit of mine as much as I admire them on others. Always feeling antsy in a manicurist chair and not liking the damage I’ve seen on…